What to know when dating a guy

He may have a very hard time committing to things like, planning a cruise or even choosing an apartment for the two of you to move into together. Your friends will tell you not to get involved with a man who is mid-divorce. You have to go with your gut on this one. If you try to make dinner plans after one of his meetings with his lawyer—or, worse, his lawyer, his ex, and her lawyer—you may be disappointed. Often meetings meant to run one hour run three hours or more.

Even lawyer meetings that run on time will leave him emotionally drained and mentally cranky. It might be best to just not see him after these meetings—give him the night to decompress. When he gets angry talking about his divorce, you might feel confused. He may still need to talk to his ex a lot. He may need to meet his ex for regular meetings to go over things.